Top 10 Secrets To Achieving The Best Orgasm Ever (18+)

 

Achieving an orgasm can be elusive for a lot of women. But it can be as simple as time, tenderness, and knowing how to stimulate her sweet spots.

Bringing a woman to orgasm has little to do with pornographic skills. The key is spending more time on foreplay and learning about the two spots that, when stimulated, can lead to a female orgasm.

It also doesn't hurt to understand which sexual positions provide the best chance for orgasm.

Read on to discover the top ten secrets to achieving the best orgasm ever.

1. Get the right position

It’s all about the positions. The women can start by being on top of their partner for much deeper sexual intercourse.

This allows the woman to move accordingly to hit her right spot, and also allows the man to feel great sexual stimulation.

The best position is one where both the partners can get access to each other easily.

2. Do the right talk

Partners can dirty talk with each other because it will increase the intensity and sexual tension to a great extent.

Sometimes, men want to know what their woman wants in bed.

Telling them might do them good as to what you want for good sexual stimulation. Deep, sexy moaning can also be a turn-on!

3. Spend More Time on Foreplay

You may be aroused and ready to go from the minute she gives you a sexy glance. But many women need plenty of physical and emotional stimulation to become aroused, lubricated, and primed for an orgasm. That's why foreplay is so crucial.

4. Delay Gratification

Instead of speeding toward the finish line, science says that building your way up to the brink of an orgasm then stopping—otherwise known as edging—and building yourself back up to the point of climax can encourage better, stronger orgasms.

5. Exercise, Exercise, Exercise

Merely anticipating a competition triggers a 24 percent boost in testosterone for women, according to a study published in the journal Evolution and Human Behavior.

And any increase in that hormone also drives up your libido, so consider it a win-win.

Plus, exercise stimulates blood flow to the genital area, increasing desire and lifting your mood.

6. Turn Up the Heat

Prior to sex, take a hot bath, or if you're short on time—place a warm washcloth over your vulva for a few minutes.

Heat boosts blood flow to your vagina, leading to increased lubrication and sensitivity.

7. Bring in the G-spot for reinforcement.

Many scientists think the famed G-spot is actually an internal extension of the clitoris, but all that really matters is that paying it attention feels really good for some people.

The easiest way to tap into that pleasure is by inserting your index finger (or having a partner insert theirs) a few inches into your vagina, palm up, and curl your finger in a come-hither motion.

Combining clitoral stimulation with G-spot stimulation can give you the feeling of that blended orgasm.

8. Fantasize without guilt.

Fantasies can help you forget about the anxieties of day-to-day life, feel less inhibited, and home in on your pleasure.

Thinking about a s3x act isn’t a sign that you want to live it out in real life, and fantasizing about people other than your current partner is not cheating.

Don’t underestimate power of mental arousal.

9. Hit the hot spots

A friction position may help you have an orgasm during intercourse. Get on top, for example, so the top of your clitoris is rubbing directly on your partner’s pubic bone.

Or lay on your back with a pillow underneath your butt.

10. Talk the talk

Men really want direction. Let your partner know when he’s on the right track, either by telling him what feels great or by moaning.

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